Tokyo Story is a film about people, identity, culture and values that combined, mirror a distinct and unique Japanese life. The film unveils a world completely of its own. A world separate from anything anyone can understand, without living and being Japanese themselves.
This is what I find very interesting about culture. Unless you have been born into a particular race or culture, or raised by those foreign to your own identity, you have no idea what it is like to be eastern or western, for there is such a divide between the two. This divide between the east and the west is as grand as the distance in oceans that separate these different shores, and yet simultaneously, can be marked by a thin hairline crack. Being eastern or western, you will never be able to understand the other. Even with, I would suggest, ethnographic or symbolic anthropological study Clifford Geertz! Though ‘Sayuki’ below is living proof that perhaps I’m wrong?
Figure 1: ‘Sayuki’ (centre) no longer refers to her western name, Fiona Graham, who now teaches local and foreign students about Japanese traditional culture from a foreign perspective, as well as providing foreign perceptions of Japan.
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Watching Tokyo story magnified something completely alien to what I know about life and the people I share it with. When I was growing up, I learnt to be an individual; to be creative and adventurous, and to express love and feeling, acting in a way that was natural to me and what I believed in. Now I cannot really make any clear statements or judgement of how Japanese people have been raised by their culture and race, though I might say, that belonging to a culture as defined historically and deeply rooted in tradition as the Japanese, I doubt being raised in any other way was/is possible. I do not mean to shed bad lighting on a culture that I do not understand. Growing up with morals and duties and having honour are all respectable and admirable. However, it is the extent to which, such morals and duty become the Japanese way of life that differs from westerners (mostly) way to live life.
Figure 2: "I'm sorry, your family is ruined!" |
Certain opinions in the film that stood out for me as some-what problematic included, “What if your sister isn’t who she really is?” and “Don’t you care that it can ruin our lives?” such quotes suggests that the Japanese are concerned with how they behave and appear in front of others, particularly family, in its potency to scar or bruise the family name or identity. Obviously this is also a concern of western families and people, though not knowing who someone is, or who they might be that is different to being true to themselves, is unusual. It is even more unusual, that a person can have such a deep impact on the entire family that it would lead other family members to disown them for their acts that have tarnished the families name and prospects. It is made evident in the film, that once the sister’s (I would say) ‘nocturnal self’ is discovered; she is no longer welcomed and accepted by friends or her employees. Though even sadder, she is no longer part of her own family; a family that she has raised and taken all measures to guarantee protection and security.
It seems in this particular portrayal of Japanese life and customs, forgiveness is hard to come by, if at all. For some reason, suicide is much more respectable than forgiveness. And I suppose this is where the east and west divide more than anywhere else. In western view, nothing is worth dying for that I think differs from the east, where conquering death is being fearless, and honourable.
I think the Japanese have a culture that we can all learn from, though one step at a time. At face value, they appear quiet and contemplative, highly respectful of others, and polite. Now who can list any western cultures that hold ALL these attributes and more? Such qualities are presented throughout the film during typical Japanese meal time, which is conducted sitting on the floor, to the woman’s everyday house-chores and taking care of her husband and family indoors. Their lifestyle seems functional and successful, though in the film, I think the director has captured a side of this standard of living that is more imprisoning and grey. Yet generally, in having rules and duty, I think the Japanese actually find some peace and pleasure in such accomplishments. Perhaps they lack a lot of freedoms that westerners have easy access too, though I think for the most part, they do not sugar-coat a life that is either tough or easy, it is very black and white. It is also appears very natural.